Hello Love!
Well it is Monday night and I am again trying to post to our blog. I am at extreme bean, drinking a small hot chai tea. The guy who made my tea I went to high school with. He was one year younger. I haven't seen him in YEARS! It was nice to talk to him - I am going to try to put him in contact with some of John G's friends who are interested in Japan, like this guy, Dan. He told me to facebook him - I laughed and said ok!I am going to try and recount the days I missed on the blog and my thoughts and feelings for the week. Here goes... (this is getting long and please don't feel like you have to read it all or any of it! Time on the computer is precious in SCLC - and here to in Tempe)
I think I last posted on Tuesday night. I think I went to sleep that night and that is about it! The next morning I woke up and went to the library to take a practice test. We did and then came home to eat lunch with plans to go back that night and study some more. Mary and I have watched a couple movies that week. We would generally study, come home eat a sandwhich watch a move (Hook one day and The Jerk the other day). Then pack up and go back to school to study.
Thursday I went to work all day for Nancy. Her dad died last Sunday and she has been out for this whole week. Work was good - we had lots of ladies out of town so we had lots of visiting nurses from other floors working - cool but not as fun as our OG group! After work I went to Tempe Marketplace to buy Mike, Katie, Mary, Casey and me tickets to Batman the next night. Then I went to Kaplan and extended my online resources for Mikel and Mary. By this time Mary decided not to take the test. Then was THE dinner - I think you have heard about that already but it was awesome!! Your family is great, they really are! You Dad was in rare form as usual - I think he bumps it up one level when Mary comes around becuase she is sort of fresh and new. It is funny - Mary doesn't really know what it is like to live in Tempe - all the fun things we know of and the cool things we sometimes take advantage of are all new to her. She was drinking out of your Octoberfest cup and was so excited to go to it this year! How funny! Thursday night I went to bed, a little too early, and then woke up for the test. I had called David for wake up call just in case but I didn't need it! After the test I sort of hung out at home for a while. Katie and Mary wanted to go to the mall to shop - so I went all with the sisters to hang out. I sat in a chair at Macy's for 45 minutes! It was boring but relaxing too. I was thinking of the contrast - where I was at that moment and where you were! Don't get me wrong, you know I love the mall, but I would have much rather been with you!
Friday night the family ate at Serrano's at Rural and Guad. At this point in the week I am really missing you! It is no doubt you are my best friend - sometimes in the hectic lives we live I forget that - but gosh is it true. You are my favorite person to be with. I like everyone else too but you are just a little more fun ;)! We saw Batman that night - another John G organized event. A good time was had by all! The movie is good - but sort of long. I prefer other movies to it but it was fun. Batman the character is plain out awesome though!
It was nice to go to sleep that night with nothing to study for the next day. Saturday morning I woke up around 9 and had to use the bathroom. Well we were out of TP so I had to make a run to our favorite neighborhood market - Trader Joe's! So I went shopping that morning trying to buy mostly superfoods - you know trying to get back into healthy shape - and of course Clif bars and TP. I also went to checker auto and bought Tammy some motor oil - although she didn't need much, good girl! All this week Mary has been house sitting and not sleeping at our place. When she came back we decided to go to the YMCA to get memberships - I like they Y. It is more a little community then a gym and I enjoy that atmosphere to the typical gym environment. After we registered we worked out - it was successful but, geez, am I out of shape!!! I am really sore as I write this. I can't straighten my arms! I then went home, showered and met up with your parents at your place. We had plans to get that table off of your porch! It fit in the back of the RAV4 and we were off to my place. We brought the table in - it looks funny on the porch with nothing else back there but when it cools off I think it will be great to have. After the table I went to Mikel's house to hang out. We went to Rubios and had dinner together. It was a good time - we chatted about stuff, mcats, school, life, music, etc. He is doing pretty good but there isnt much going on in his life right now, no work or school or anything.
Sunday morning I woke up and took a walk to the gym to ride the bike and read. It worked out nicely - a 6 minute walk door to door. Since you have been gone I have been reading De Mello, How to Love and One Minute Nonsense and also Thomas Keating? (Open Heart Open Mind). I read a couple of chapters of OHOM (my fingers are getting a little tired!) De Mello and Keating have real similar styles - I am trying to do contempelative prayer and also trying to be "Aware" during the day too! I have been really wanting to pray and I have been, so that is good. The prayer is almost painful in a weird way. My relationship with God isn't so hot right now and I am trying to work on it. It feels like I am learning to drive a stick shift car for the first time - I am grinding the gears a little bit. I am not smooth at all (haha, funny I can't really drive a stick in real life either, ie, audi TT ;)) But I am getting a little better each day. I wanted to pray - like sitting and praying for a period of time, so I am trying to do OHOM prayer. I am also trying to keep the awareness stuff going on as I go throughout my day. I will keep you updated on this as time goes on.
So Sunday I road the bike and then went to my parents house to try to use the computer and just hang out. Katie and Mary brought over the TV stand Sunday afternoon - it is a little big so I am not sure what we are going to do with it - we'll see. We all went to 6pm mass at Holy Spirit and then to Mac's for dinner. My family LOVES Mac's and rightfully so, it is good! After dinner I went home and went to bed so I could wake up for work today. I have been going to bed early and love the mornings, we should do this when you get back and when we are married too. Today at work...pretty busy day but nothing too interesting. I am getting the hang of the job pretty well these days and feel good about it. Of couse, I still have tons and tons to learn but I feel like I am helping out too - a good feeling. After work Mary and I walked to the Y and worked out again -a little better today but imagine I'll be sore for a while. Came back and had some grapes, tomatoes, yogurt and applesauce - I am still a little hungry right now though. I then headed out to Extreme Bean to "blog".
I have been taking three minute showers in solidarity with you - although I imagine you arent taking showers like the ones I am taking and they probally arent for three minutes but a lot less than that! But I remember when I came back from El Salvador I couldn't beleieve what a shower was like and how much we take running water for granted. Thus, I am taking only three minute showers - its fun!
Here is what I have going on this week -
Tuesday - application work, St Vinnies, application work, Coffee meeting, application work
Wednesday - work at POTC for Nancy - go to David's for dinner he is cooking his famous spaghetti, with application work inbetween there!
Thursday - I dont know but I think just application work
Friday - work at POTC and leave for Carlsbad at 7pm with Mike Savage. We are travelling together alone. I am looking foward to spending some time with my bro in law!
Each day I also will be praying and exercising too! I enjoy working out but never want to be a crazy working out person - I would like to get healthy though, so I got to start to lose the extra layers of love handles I have :)
Wow! Ok, I think that is it for now love. I miss you and hope you are having a tremendous time and experience. I am so exited for you this week - you are a truely honest and real person. You will do great this week as you learn more about the community and how you can get to work! It is not in your capability to be served for too long - you are a tool of the Lord and a mighty one at that! Talk to you soon! Love Love Love!
Vince